TurtleTrainer's Profile

"First Impressions"
Please, don't let the hair fool you, or scare you. After all, the hair and the stash are changeable...
Kinda like a "Mr. Potato Head"... lol.
Don't get me wrong, have great respect for myself, but when it comes to a good women and a strong relationship, something as petty as my hair and what she likes to look at is not an issue...

I have fantastic kids that I share a great relationship with.
Sometimes if you wanna find a mans worth, just look at his family life...
The couple pictures I have posted of me with my girls tell a story. Ive had great memories making family ...
My girls live with their mom. Now that their teens, we don't hang out every weekend as much anymore, so that leaves me with good quality time for someone special ...
If you wanna see a deeper side of me, please, read some of my thoughts below... I'd like that!
Just know one thing, I have a lot to give in a good relationship and am looking hard to find the right fit.

"Memories"
I would love to find a good friend. A good friendship, makes a great relationship. A great relationship, makes great memories. Great memories are what a person talks about for years to come.
I just want to help make great memories with my best friend and future better half...

Some of the things in my life that are important to me...
I love my daughters very much! They are a big part of my world, but so is a relationship. Those two worlds can work great together because I want it to and my girls want to see me happy as well...
I recently dated a woman that became a big part of our lives, so I know the two worlds can work good together and go smoothly. However, that world didn't last and here I am... I have moved on and so has she...

I love life!
I love to do new things. I will try almost anything once. I do really "Love" the mountains! Camping and hiking are very "Zen" for me.
I'm Italian and I love to cook.
Blah, Blah, Blah...
I do love these things very much, but most of these ads read the same. After reading a few, you kinda forget you started a new person...
I could post one that same way, but I'm a different kind of person. I thought being myself would be refreshing and original...
Besides, "Paste and Copy" is to easy...
There's one thing that I've noticed on many of the ads here, women, for the most part, just wanna be able to laugh and feel good... I've seen that one phrase in most women's ads.
Well, I'm not a class clown, but I do have a talent that makes people feel good. "Laughter"
Laughter is a great thing to experience and I try to make my world as happy as I can...
I love to make someone I care about feel good and laughter is a great start!
It's a big part of those "Great Memories" I was talking about earlier...
I want you to know one thing, I know my pictures aren't the best and make me look a bit harsh (I'm not a great looking man).
The one thing that makes me a good catch, is the love that I have for family, friends and that one person I want to spend the best years of my life with.
I read once in someones bio, "A real relationship has a bond that can never be broken. I've felt that way and have been searching for someone that feels that as well...


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"Life and what scares me the most"

For most of my life there's one thing that really scares me, being alone, or worse, feeling lonely when you're surrounded by people... Why does that simple thing bring me to my knees and pray....

*Pray* for someone to just notice me... Not for what kinds of clothes I'm wearing, things I'm using, or how much money I'm making, but mostly for what kinda good person is peeking out from the inside...

*Pray* for someone to bring out that smile I've waited so long to use...

*Pray* for someone to help open my sore, yet tired eyes . Mostly, so I can see a couple bright, clear, beautifully colored eyes, that are very curious to see the true color of mine...

*Pray* for someone that can look past the wear and tear of my hard exterior, only to see a softer,yet careing side that wants so much just to be used and craved by another...
Always looking for someone special to share just a few of my most inner treasures with...

Like loyalty. Standing by your side. Always there for you. Through hard times, as well as good times. Through right and wrong. An unwavering loyalty that can only be found from someone that just wants to be there for you...

The limitless giving of ones self... Even when my hands are bare and the only thing I have left to give, "Is" myself, I can stand proud knowing you're truly happy with me...

The privilege of being faithful to just one person. Spending the happiest years of your life in pure bliss knowing I'm going to be there, time after time...

These are just few wants of mine that I've waited so long to experience...
And yet, I have to walk, head held high, fake a smile and act as if my life is happy...

Recently, I experienced just a fraction of what I've tried to describe above. That welcomed and "O-So" short lived love affair, slipped through my fingers so fast, I didn't even get a chance to stop and sample a taste... But, from what I did taste, I'm now hungry and want more... I'm still searching to experience the rest of my life's dream...

"Someday" :)

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