My wife asked me out of the blue if id ever thought about swinging, i said only in my head. I said if it was something she would like to consider then we could discuss it but my only request is for it to be bisexual. I am a bicurious man, a naked man gets me going, i fantasize about having sex with a man while wife watches a dream. So my question is 1st is this unsafe for our marriage, no insecurities, would love to watch my wife with another man and/or woman. I really want to fullfill my bi curiosities. Should we maybe visit a swingers party first?

sometimes a fantasy destroys relationships, if this is really want you both want I would say go for it, try it out, talk about it deeply before and after if you go with it, its not worth losing your loved one over this, good luck!

Agree with all that. Hope anyone thinking about this has a long series of discussions. Not just about swinging, but about how much they really trust each other. I've noticed the really sucessfull and happy swingers dont have many rules between them. They trust each other. A lot of rules are not needed, even if they are the sort that play seperately.

After its established that a couple can trust each other unconditionally with this they can talk about what they want to get out of swinging & what they like to do.

would hate to see some dude bangin my girl but you said you like dudes so it should'nt be a problem..