I think it matters to most men in that they worry if it matters to their partner for actual feel or orgasm (or fantasy?) I think it DOES matter for a minority of women; in which follow the 4 "F"s - Find 'em, Feel 'em, Fuck 'em & Forget 'em. Maybe also warn other guys they are easy but shallow. What pisses me off is these websites that ask for penis don't ask for the obvious female corollary i.e., vulva size e.g. labia and clit and most importantly vaginal tightness!! Hello, girls!! TIGHT is right & if you are slack or sloppy in the frontbum, there's always the backdoor option and believe me most men ARE backdoor men!! ;=P