what to do with your hands and when and while you are making love..

Use them wisely making sure the whole time you are frim but yet gentle a mans fingers in most cases are very hard and sometimes when you grab her you can not feel her so you grab her harder.. This inreturn hurts her in some cases you might even bruse her..Remenber your hand plays a very inportant part of love making..So you have to watch very closely when you touch her..Like her clit make sure that your fingers are wet eather with your syliver or a lubrecunts of some kind..when you gently pinch her nipples and the rest of her breast..I normaly pinch over her intire breast and she realy loves for me to do this..To me its just part of foreplay..At an adverige it takes me 45 minutes to an hour of foreplay before i touch her woman hood..By the time i am ready to touch her she boiling over with a deep deep desire for me to it..and when i do she goes balistic on me and god i love that..even the quit ones has to let a husky ye'll so remenber be frim but gentle with your fingers..as you suck and play with her nipples with your mouth gently start pinching her from the top of her breast down to her chest... do this all around her breast frist one then the other...and gently let your fingers slide up and down her sides and over her butt she like this..

even when you kiss them put a hand on both sides of her face and pull her to you..

use your and use them wisely Shadow

I do so love a tactile man

Hmmmmm Poppy a man is no better than the woman he is with..So many women have little quirts like don't kiss me there it tickles or don't put your fingers in there it tickles..Knowing all along she is lieing she just does not want to make love .. So being the man of sound mind when they start that stuff i quit making love and just walk away.. So no matter how good you are it seems you just can not satisfy every woman ..

And thats the truth Shadow :o)

pleasing your mate is an adventure in geography in my opinion, visit each crevice and shadowed area. I'm not ticklish, so I can't use that excuse lol but I will admit to having said on occasion (Very rare ones mind you lol) that I'm just not in the mood. I'm very tactile myself and if hubby is anywhere near me my hands are on him in some way even if it is only holding his hand. I do agree on a person being no better than the one they are with, but I also believe the two of you can get to know eachother so well that the time you are together is incredible because you do take the time to please eachother and in doing so, it makes your own pleasure so much more just knowing what your touch does to them.

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