May. 31st, 2023 at 2:52pm
[B]Simon Bridge
You should start by clearing up some of your ideas about sex…
You sound like sex is something that the other guy will be doing to your wife instead of being a shared experience where your wife and the guy (and you) interact mutually.
Note: what you are describing is not usually thought of as a threesome … it is a regular two-person sex act with a spectator (you). To be a threesome, you have to join in.
You can find a willing third party just by advertising. You could also hire one. Google for him ;) There are also swingers and fetish clubs that can help you out (google for one near you).
Before the special event, make sure you three have a sit down discussion in neutral territory (there are discrete cafes and bars, or just in a park out of the way) to get to know each other.
Usually anyone who is willing to have sex with another mans wife while he is watching is going to be respectful of the both of you.
Brighteyes
What’s it like to watch your wife with another guy?
I haven't had occasion to watch my wife with another man but it is at the top of my list of things that I would like to do! She has to arrive at that place of her own choice and I hope I am lucky enough to experience the eroticism of that moment.
Ashley Holland
Do you agree with wife sharing?
Both my husband and I agree with wife sharing. It all started years ago while my husband was traveling for business. He was out of the country and called me in the evening and explained that their was that woman in his hotel which he was sexually attracted to and asked me if he could have a fun night with her. As we already shared many of our fantasies together and I knew that he fantasizes about fucking other women on his business trips, I told him that I allowed it for once, as I didn’t know what my feelings afterwards would be.
He called me the next morning and told me how his night was and told me all the details. It turned me on a lot and asked him if I was meeting a man and had a steamy night with, if he allow me to do so as well. Also he agreed to allow it for once in order to see what his emotions were. A couple of weeks later I had a hot night with a young man and I loved it a lot. My husband was also turned on a lot and that’s how we started.
Now we do this already for many years and it enhanced our relationship and sex life for the good. We always are open about it and in the meanwhile we have had many threesomes, orgies and even gangbangs. We most enjoy other people when we are together, however due to my husbands work which demands a lot of traveling we also play alone. Sometimes we have a break and don’t do it for months as we have also other priorities of course. However our relationship became stronger than ever. We also agreed that if one of us want to stop this lifestyle, we both will stop it right away.[/B]
You should start by clearing up some of your ideas about sex…
You sound like sex is something that the other guy will be doing to your wife instead of being a shared experience where your wife and the guy (and you) interact mutually.
Note: what you are describing is not usually thought of as a threesome … it is a regular two-person sex act with a spectator (you). To be a threesome, you have to join in.
You can find a willing third party just by advertising. You could also hire one. Google for him ;) There are also swingers and fetish clubs that can help you out (google for one near you).
Before the special event, make sure you three have a sit down discussion in neutral territory (there are discrete cafes and bars, or just in a park out of the way) to get to know each other.
Usually anyone who is willing to have sex with another mans wife while he is watching is going to be respectful of the both of you.
Brighteyes
What’s it like to watch your wife with another guy?
I haven't had occasion to watch my wife with another man but it is at the top of my list of things that I would like to do! She has to arrive at that place of her own choice and I hope I am lucky enough to experience the eroticism of that moment.
Ashley Holland
Do you agree with wife sharing?
Both my husband and I agree with wife sharing. It all started years ago while my husband was traveling for business. He was out of the country and called me in the evening and explained that their was that woman in his hotel which he was sexually attracted to and asked me if he could have a fun night with her. As we already shared many of our fantasies together and I knew that he fantasizes about fucking other women on his business trips, I told him that I allowed it for once, as I didn’t know what my feelings afterwards would be.
He called me the next morning and told me how his night was and told me all the details. It turned me on a lot and asked him if I was meeting a man and had a steamy night with, if he allow me to do so as well. Also he agreed to allow it for once in order to see what his emotions were. A couple of weeks later I had a hot night with a young man and I loved it a lot. My husband was also turned on a lot and that’s how we started.
Now we do this already for many years and it enhanced our relationship and sex life for the good. We always are open about it and in the meanwhile we have had many threesomes, orgies and even gangbangs. We most enjoy other people when we are together, however due to my husbands work which demands a lot of traveling we also play alone. Sometimes we have a break and don’t do it for months as we have also other priorities of course. However our relationship became stronger than ever. We also agreed that if one of us want to stop this lifestyle, we both will stop it right away.[/B]
