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hi, just a chatty man seeking a relationship, happy to send photos if required, i have nothing to hide!

finding a lifelong partner is never easy, there is no right or wrong way.it starts with a few words and can last a lifetime

i need a lady who is challenging, that knows what she wants and argues for it.she does not settle for the mundane or easy option but relishes the challenge of getting things just right.

our affinity to water derives from being an island race, water is in our blood more than any other european country. you cannot fight the dna, darwin was right. now english ladies are used to fighting, it is deep within the psyche, just as chomsky oberserved that man has an innate capacity for language, what he called a language acquisition device

never fight your nature, work with it, because you demand challenges, yoga, exploring and spirituality, you need a partner that challenges you on all levels. chit chat is ok, but look for the path less easily taken, the life less ordinary

i find my inspiration in philosophy, and yes you have a capacity for greatness which your previous partners have been incapable of nurturing. life coaching is acquired through experience of someone close, yes i think i could if you gave me a chance.

the problem is that when i say that you think me arrogant, even thugh what im saying is with the right person you can be truly great. it is you that has the dna, the capacity to develop inwardly which i would help you with

well now i,ve got your attention briefly please take a seat, get comfortable, (it may take a while) and read on

Single boy seeks single girl for activities such as Indoor skydiving (I kid you not this one is actually possible "see xscape at milton keynes for details"), white water platypuss rafting, pass the cactus, hedgejumping, crocodile surfing, and other fun and adventurous stuff,

And other general stuff more commonly known as "DATING". that age old tradition where you meet someone you like, hang out a bit and find out what makes them tick.

Must have Peter Pan Tendencies, GSOH (that being good sense of humour, and not good sh*g own helicopter as was suggested by one of broadmoors finest in a recent conversation), the willingness to laugh at oneself and not just at my disastrous antics. Tactile ,Intelligent,a romantic and enigmatic are traits that go a long way also.

I AM NOT LOOKING FOR A ONE, TWO OR THREE NIGHT STAND NOR AM I LOOKING FOR "FUN" OR CASUAL LOL, to plagiarise a phrase you have to get into my heart before you get into my bed.
Neither am i looking for prince charming or my next ex wife.
quite simply just a nice girl for a DATE and go from there, .one step at a time.

To quote bridget jones "will find nice, sensible girlfriend to go out with and not form romantic attachments to any of the following; alcoholics, workaholics, commitment phobics, peeping toms, megalomaniacs, emotional f**kwits or perverts!"
also including of course lunatics, convicts, marriedwitts, halfwitts,or half the contents of Darwins gladbag.
The problem with the gene pool is that there is no lifeguard. So if your parents are cousins, you have 12 toes, or you can only SPK N TYP LYK DIS then it probably isn't worth your while getting in touch either.

could ladies who are on the site because`it worked for a friend of a friend so i thought i would give it a try` also consider this:statistically and exponentially,using this logic,you are far more likely to win the lottery.let me explain-we all know someone who knows someone who is famous,but this doesnt actually make us famous.in other words,we are all here because we are all extremely desperate,denial only exacerbates the problem.how many times does a correspondence result in `read,delete,block`?try this at the local pub!

just another reality check,for those ladies who have a list of requirements as long as the magna carta,and equally onerous,consider this:are you really being choosy,or merely setting alarm bells ringing in the minds of every rational male on the site ie if your profile is that picky (or should that be prickly?)how successful would the date itself be?`ooh,that lettuce is just to cold`or`could we possibly meet at 8.33pm to avoid the chimes of big ben`.so ladies,throw away your prejudices and your list of requirements,just admit,`yes,im desperate and any male with a pulse and a good,kind heart will be considered,and you will be married in 6 months

For all you lot out there that love the red wine/dvd/sofa thing so much.. when WAS the last time you actually did that!. seemingly half the site seems to be an alcoholic couch potatoed member of blockbusters frequent user club..and us boys are well aware briefly translated means, "give you a few glasses of wine and i,ll try to sneak my hand up your jumper whilst your watching the chick flick I chose to give the impression am sensitive nice garcon"

OOhh could you possibly live fairly close too, (those from russia, bolivia,australia,outer mongolia . we need a a little reality here , the distance thing might prove a few problems and i,ve run out of airmiles!). scotland, ireland and further than 150 miles away. this is a tough on.. a close call admittedly if you look like maria carey, own a massive yacht and of course drive a ferrari ..(and who says we men are shallow huh, it,s not shallow, it`s misunderstood preferences!)

Note: the comments regarding maria carey etc may not neccessarily be gospel truth.. sarcasm doesnt travel well in text apparently .
And if you are indeed Miss Right, it doesnt really matter where you live does it! cause your Miss Right XX

I'm looking for those moments when seemingly time and space stop. When a conversation lasts all night and all those around save for the one you are with cease to exist. Someone to click with at a multitude of levels.

Quite simply just someone very special,

YOU NEVER KNOW IT COULD BE YOU !.

N.B. well done for reading it all. assuming you havent got too comfortable and are asleep now of course.
Then theres the bit where we meet up and spend the first 5 minutes deciding whether I like you and you like me, how to get out of here if you don,t or I don,t because let,s face it a profile is always 2 dimensional and ever so slightly biased. (honesty always a good try here). or "oh they are really quite lovely" and the rest is unwritten history !!
Im a very happy, smiley person, extremely laid back and always avoid confrontation. Friends say that i am kind caring and considerate, but hey they may be a lil bit biased? I wear my heart on my sleeve, which i know is not always a good thing, but im just me, im not gonna change now

First Date
On a typical Friday night I am
highly flexible, but not too long, its a chance to say hi and break the ice, and see how we get on, thats all

.. well a day at alton towers would be fun and something different or a day at chester zoo, I havent been to a zoo for years but know a few couples go for a day out! Mind u thinking about it, what if we didn't like each other? it is a bit far to g..imagine the car ride!! lol x so maybe save that idea for the 2nd or 3rd date!!
....So the safer option would be a nice meal in a trendy bar or a country pub. But theres loads of things we cud do and places to go, so I would be open to suggestions.
im just as happy in a high end swanky establishment shmoozing with vips and celebrities discussing cost push inflation and recent political developments from guantanamo bay to pakistan as...

having a cuppa in a local cafe with someone in big boots and a scarf gossiping about what paris hilton is up to..not to mention the must watch david hasselhof burger eating video..the laughs just go on and on!
if the company is right what you are,how you look and what you wear will be unimportant but saying that,the mick jagger binliner look is just too eighties!.
im quite easy going and even tempered but dont mind highly strung ladies or down to earth..by the way..which are you!.....you choose,anything up to 1000 pounds
You should message me if
you are kind, sincere and considerate

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