Jasper0765

Here I am making a golden list a mile long of all my wonderful attributes. Everything that you listed that you want in a man is right here on my "About Me" list. Word after word painting a picture of absolute perfection! Wow! See that list!? I can't believe I actually exist I'm just too good to be true! It says I'm Honest and trustworthy and oh ya lets not forget dependable. Moving along...Free of any past baggage, mental illnesses, drug or alcohol addictions or anger management issues. Hey! I have a great sense of humor and always appreciate someone else's "inner child". I'm a lover not a fighter, very spontaneously romantic. A God in the kitchen and BBQ all year round. Words, words, more words. we come on here look at some pictures and if a pic registers high enough on our personal version of a total hotness list in our lethargically numb brains we do a quick glance over the words on the profile and think ohhhh,... they're PERFECT!
So how many perfect profiles have you read, (glanced at) made all the appropriate contact efforts and chat sessions to find out on the first date, first week or month that the perfect person with those perfect characteristics on that perfectly worded profile you read were the first lies you were fed?
BTW, everything on that list about me is absolutely true! I am all those things. Or at least I try my best to be all those things. Far from "perfect" by a long shot though. I absolutely believe that Character, Honor and who we are as a person is judged by our actions not our words. Trust, friendship and solid relationship foundations are forged when the words are said and always backed up with commitment and effort.
Namaste