Wyldesguy

So, my dilemma is, how to write this without coming across as desperate, or demanding, or egotistical, or even pathetic.

But I have to start somewhere and in some way, cause doing nothing at all, doesn’t work.

My health over the past year has been a serious issue for me. While I will not pretend I am 100%, at this time I am feeling better than I have for quite a long time, and now I am ready to keep pushing forward. To do that, I need to improve my strength, my stamina and my cardiovascular ability.

I don’t know how else to state it, except directly, so...I am looking for a woman, or even women, who like me, are looking for something that is difficult to find…an erotic wrestling partner/opponent. It doesn’t even really have to be sexual, but if you are into this type of wrestling, you know it’s pretty hard for it to not be.

That would be the pathetic and desperate part, now for the egotistical and/or demanding part.

Here are some of the traits I would hope to find in this person;

You are mature. Mature is not an age thing, it’s a personality trait, age is irrelevant
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You are comfortable in your own skin.

You are aggressive, assertive, but do not consider yourself dominant.

You like/love to wrestle rough and hard with men and women, and you consider it a sexual thing.

You know how to enjoy the wrestling experience and like to prolong it and not just go immediately for the win.

You try to win when you wrestle, but you accept that you sometimes lose, and never get angry about it.

You understand that wrestling hurts sometimes, and like to give it, and receive it, but you don’t quit easily.
You love oral sex, both giving and receiving.

You ask for what you want when you want it and don’t expect your partner to just figure it out.