helena10

I'm helena 28 years old. I was born in canada and raised in ghana single , no
kids, 5-7 ft tall, 160 lbs... I generally try to live a some what healthy
lifestyle, exercising and some sort of jogging, 3-4 days a week and eating
healthy, (trust me, I love sweets and pastries, but try not to over do it). I
would also like to find a like-minded male where we can participate in
activities together and encourage each other to pursue their interests as well.
I have several hobbies (and wish I could find more time to pursue those) such as
swimming, playing computer games, dancing, and reading,and more,and would like
someone to share that with, as well as their sharing their interests with me...
I am generally an optimistic person with a sense of humor, fairly easy-going,
and I don't think that I'm too critical about things, but I also believe
that it takes two people contributing to a relationship to make it work. As I
mentioned earlier, I like to do things with
the other significant person in my life, but I also encourage him to go out
and spend time with friends and pursue his own interests and hobbies as well. I
believe that time spent apart helps keep things fresh in a relationship and
makes the time we do spend together even better. I'm not one who cheats in a
relationship; one man is enough trouble ; I don't have the time or energy to
juggle 2, 3, or 4 at the same time - ha ha. But I also want to be in a
relationship where I can totally trust the other person and not dwell on how the
relationship is NOT working... I DO NOT expect a man to be a servant to me,
spending all his time working and and cleaning; I believe there is give and take
in a relationship, and I realize that at times it's more convenient for me
to do laundry, cook, clean, and I have no problem doing that. I consider myself
to be a fairly honest and truthful person and expect the same in return; I'm
not wealthy and don't expect someone to
attempt to deceive me or "play" me. Everybody makes mistakes and I
usually give people the benefit of the doubt, but if the same pattern keeps
emerging, it's over. I do not want to meet someone who may think that they
will take advantage of me or lie to me and cheat on me under false pretenses.
Sorry if that sounds harsh, and I'm not accusing anybody of any wrongdoing,
but I'm being upfront and honest about that, so you know where I stand from
the beginning. With all due respect as well, I hope that you are upfront and
honest with me, as well. we'll see how things go after we get to know each
other. Well, I hope that this lets you know a little about me,and I hope I
don't come across as being too cynical, harsh, or mean sounding. I will give
anybody the benefit of the doubt (we're all human, we all make mistakes),
but I also don't like being taken advantage of. I'm just asking you to
keep it real and be honest from the beginning; that way, nobody is
wasting their time or getting their feelings hurt. I also realize that at
times two people are just too different to be in a relationship together;that
all i can tell you now.