marrylady

never thought I would be doing this, but at my best friends request,it's one of the most difficult things to do. To say who we are on a screen, using only words. No expression, no gestures, no intense engagement, not a sense of energy, of chemistry. And, to be honest, I feel that most people base everything on the things that ultimately don't matter. (My opinion, and some statistics haha)I am someone who strives to be the best I can be, in whatever I do. I love to learn, to evolve, to share, to care, to laugh and I am looking for someone similar. I expect there to be differences but not necessarily in basic values and goals. My goal, if I can call it that is to be with someone that wants to make a difference in this world, not just his own little world. To create something together. It's not about me or his, but about we and us. I am not conventional in my thinking. I think and feel outside the box, and even though I don't always succeed, I continue to be aware, and try to learn from my mistakes. My partner would be someone who speaks his mind, who has something to say, can say it with feeling and conviction. I promise I will listen. Someone who can communicate her innermost feelings, desires, and wants. I am quite comfortable socially, and I like to explore different venues, whether that means trying new foods, new activities, new ways of thinking or just simply being open. I am aware of my imperfections, but I don't see them as such. They are just opportunities to better who I am. I do not need to be in a relationship, I CHOOSE to be in a relationship. I AM NOT looking for someone who finds their happiness in external things. For ex. money, material things, a provider, etc.. I do feel in a lot of ways, it's not possible to be happy with someone else, unless we are happy with who we are. So, in other words, it's all about putting in our best effort to create a space of happiness, love , care, peace, passion for OUR partners, not only thinking about our egos.I will continue to elaborate on this section, but I will end in saying that life can be long, but it can also be short. We really, really, really never know when we are finished with the body that is currently on loan. So, in searching for truth and striving to be "real", I hope you will do the same.Just in ending: First of all, if you haven't read this far, I guess it doesn't matter lol