Video section

So it's come to my attention that this awesome website lacks a little entertaining spark. Most people would or will say. That the site is for people who want to keep their sex life on the down low. But still allow just a few people into it. Which is fine. But if that is the case. Then why shouldn't those that are on the person's friends list not able to watch a short clip or video ? And if others don't mind people watching their videos. Because they know that there is no way in hell. Any person on here who comments will ever be able to join or get a shot at whatever they are in to. There should also be the ability to block those who comment negatively about someone's video. Just like you can someone profile. Some people will argue. That privacy is of big concern for this website. But if that is the case. Then why is that person(s) letting so many people see their sexuality on this site. So the question goes to ask why doesn't this great website have a place to post short clips or videos at the other person's own discretion.