Taking your time and fucking slowly is always more pleasurable regardless of which end you're on - male of female. A man will have a considerably better orgasm when taking his time. Woman will enjoy it more, unless the man is placing all of his weight on her so hard that she can't breathe. Having good sex that is fun for both parties is something that the two have to work together on and be hones with each other. On the same subject, both parties can't get their feelings out of joint if their partner didn't enjoy it.